Not Everything Online Deserves Your Trust
We have more information at our fingertips than probably any generation before us.
Within seconds, we can look up a symptom, learn about something happening halfway across the world, watch someone explain a complicated subject, read thousands of opinions, find a study, discover a new idea, or stumble across a fact that makes us think, Wait... is that actually true?
And sometimes?
It isn't.
Other times, it is technically true—but missing enough context to completely change what it means.
Sometimes it's someone's opinion presented like a fact.
Sometimes it's an honest mistake.
Sometimes someone shared something because it sounded good and never stopped to check it.
I've been guilty of that one.
Something sounds right.
It carries a good message.
Maybe it confirms something we already believe.
So we share it.
Because really—who has time to research every single thing they see online?
Most of us don't.
And I don't think the answer is that we should.
The answer is learning when something deserves a second look.
The Internet Didn't Eliminate the Need for Judgment
One of the greatest things about the internet is that almost anyone can contribute to the conversation.
Ideas that once may never have traveled beyond a living room can reach millions of people.
We can learn directly from people with completely different backgrounds and experiences.
We can discover perspectives we may never have encountered otherwise.
That's a good thing.
Ideas are meant to be exchanged. Without the exchange of ideas, growth becomes pretty difficult.
But giving everyone a voice also means we can't assume every voice carries the same level of knowledge, evidence, or credibility.
A professional-looking website doesn't guarantee accuracy.
A person speaking confidently doesn't guarantee expertise.
Thousands of shares don't turn something into a fact.
And seeing the same claim repeatedly doesn't necessarily make it more trustworthy.
That's where discernment comes in.
As we talked about in What Happens When You Lack Discernment?, discernment isn't about becoming suspicious of everything around you. It's about learning to look a little closer before deciding what deserves your trust.
Online, that skill has become increasingly important.
Facts, Perspectives, and Possibilities Are Not the Same Thing
This is where conversations online can get messy.
Someone's perspective matters.
Their experience matters.
Their ideas matter.
But perspective and fact aren't the same thing.
Two people can experience the same situation and walk away with completely different interpretations of what happened. Listening to both can help us understand something more fully without requiring us to treat every interpretation as an established fact.
The same goes for beliefs.
Something doesn't have to have already happened for it to be worth believing could happen.
Nearly every meaningful idea started somewhere before there was proof it would work.
Someone imagined the business before the business existed.
Someone believed an invention could work before they built it.
Someone believed their work could help people before they knew whether anyone would ever pay attention.
Those aren't necessarily false statements.
They're possibilities.
The important part is recognizing what kind of information we're dealing with.
Is this a fact?
An opinion?
A perspective?
A belief?
A prediction?
A possibility?
Or is someone presenting one of those things as though it were an established fact?
There is an important difference.
This is also why Listening to Understand vs. Listening to Respond matters here. Understanding another person's perspective doesn't mean we have to adopt it as our own. Sometimes listening simply gives us another piece of information to consider.
Sometimes We Believe Things Because They Feel True
Here's where all of us can get caught.
Emotion is powerful.
A post makes us angry.
A headline scares us.
A story gives us hope.
Someone says exactly what we've been thinking and suddenly we're saying, SEE! I knew it.
When emotion gets behind the wheel, discernment has a tendency to end up in the back seat.
That doesn't mean emotions are bad.
They're information too.
But feeling strongly about something doesn't make it factual.
Sometimes the information we're least likely to question is the information that agrees with us.
If we continuously consume people, articles, videos, and posts that reinforce what we already believe, we can slowly create a world where our own perspective seems like the only reasonable one.
That's how bias gets stronger.
And it's one reason Why People Stop Listening becomes relevant here. If we're only listening for confirmation, we aren't really listening anymore.
Real discernment isn't only questioning information we doubt.
It's being willing to question information we already believe.
Because when something perfectly confirms what we already think, we may be even less likely to ask whether it's actually true.
Sometimes Wrong Information Is Accidental. Sometimes It Isn't.
There's an important distinction here.
Misinformation can be inaccurate or misleading information passed along by someone who genuinely believes it's true.
Disinformation is different. It's deliberately created or spread to deceive.
Both can cause harm, but the intent behind them isn't the same.
Not every piece of misinformation is shared by someone twirling their imaginary villain mustache thinking, Let's fool everybody today.
Sometimes people genuinely believe they're helping.
I've done it.
You see something meaningful, useful, funny, alarming, or important and think, Other people need to see this.
So you share it.
That doesn't make someone malicious.
It makes them human.
But deliberate disinformation is a serious problem precisely because it takes advantage of something very human: our willingness to believe and share information that feels convincing.
And figuring out what is real isn't necessarily getting easier.
Seeing Isn't Always Believing Anymore
There was a time when a photograph, recording, screenshot, or video felt like pretty strong evidence that something happened.
Today, we have to be a little more careful.
AI and other editing tools can create or alter images, voices, videos, written content, screenshots, and other material convincingly enough that simply saying “I saw it” may not tell us very much about whether it's authentic.
That doesn't mean every image is fake.
It doesn't mean every video should be treated with suspicion.
It simply means appearance alone isn't always enough to establish credibility anymore.
If something carries serious consequences—or seems almost unbelievable—it may be worth verifying before we accept it or pass it along.
You Can't Research Everything
This is where some advice about misinformation becomes unrealistic.
“Always check everything.”
Okay.
With what time?
We encounter an enormous amount of information every day. Researching every claim isn't practical, and most things don't require it.
If someone posts the wrong year a movie came out, your life probably isn't going to fall apart.
But if you're about to make a major decision based on something you read, change something important about your health, finances, relationships, safety, or future, or publicly accuse someone based on what you've seen online?
That's different.
And if something makes you furious enough that your thumb is already hovering over the Share button?
That's probably worth slowing down for too.
Discernment isn't about researching everything.
It's about recognizing when the stakes make verification worth your time.
Before You Trust It, Get Curious
You don't need to become a professional investigator every time you open your phone.
Sometimes a few questions are enough.
Who is saying this?
Do they actually have knowledge or experience in this area?
What are they actually claiming?
Not the dramatic headline. Not the comments underneath it. What is the claim itself?
How do they know?
Is there evidence? An original source? Research? Direct experience? Or are they repeating something they heard somewhere else?
What's missing?
Context can completely change the meaning of a statistic, photograph, quote, or story.
Am I seeing information—or someone's interpretation of information?
Both can be valuable. They're simply not the same thing.
What is this making me feel?
Angry? Afraid? Vindicated? Hopeful?
And finally:
Do I know this is true—or do I just want it to be?
You don't have to answer every question every time.
Sometimes asking one is enough to move your emotions out of the driver's seat for a minute.
We're Responsible for What We Pass Along, Too
We can't reasonably investigate everything we encounter.
But when we choose to pass something along, we become another link in the chain.
That gives us at least some responsibility for what travels through us.
At the same time, the responsibility doesn't rest entirely on the person sharing it.
We have some responsibility for what we consume, too.
Maybe it's closer to 50/50.
The person communicating information should make a reasonable effort not to mislead people.
And the person receiving it should remember that seeing something online doesn't automatically make it true.
Neither side can reasonably be expected to investigate everything.
But both can practice discernment.
Before we pass something along, one question can go a long way:
Do I know this is true—or am I simply helping it travel?
Disagreement Doesn't Automatically Mean Someone Is Wrong
There's another trap worth watching.
Sometimes we label information “untrustworthy” when what we really mean is:
I don't agree with that.
Those aren't the same thing either.
Facts matter.
But facts can coexist with different interpretations, perspectives, values, and conclusions.
That means two thoughtful people can look at some of the same information and still disagree about what it means or what should happen next.
The goal of discernment isn't to collect enough information to destroy everyone else's argument.
It's to understand what you're looking at well enough to think for yourself.
And when those differences turn into real conversations, the skills in How to Have a Difficult Conversation matter too. We don't have to turn every disagreement into a battle where somebody has to win.
Sometimes another person's perspective teaches us something.
Sometimes ours teaches them something.
Sometimes nobody changes their mind.
That's okay.
Ideas need room to be exchanged.
You Don't Have to Decide Right Away
Maybe one of the most useful things we can learn in an information-heavy world is how to say:
I don't know yet.
That's allowed.
You can read something without immediately deciding whether you believe it.
You can hear an argument without adopting it.
You can question something you agree with.
You can change your mind when better information comes along.
You can hold an idea loosely while you learn more.
And you can decide that something simply isn't important enough to investigate further.
Not every piece of information deserves your trust.
But not every piece of information deserves your distrust either.
Sometimes it simply deserves a little curiosity.
Fox's Take
The internet gives us access to an incredible amount of human knowledge, creativity, experience, and ideas.
That's worth celebrating.
But access to information isn't the same thing as understanding it.
We don't need to become suspicious of everyone.
We don't need to research every sentence we encounter.
And we certainly don't need to stop exchanging ideas because somebody might be wrong.
We just need to get a little better at knowing when to slow down.
Let facts be facts.
Let perspectives be perspectives.
Let possibilities be possibilities.
Listen to ideas.
Question things.
Learn from people.
Change your mind when something better comes along.
And when something feels important enough to influence what you believe, what you do, or what you pass along to someone else—
give it that second look.
Not everything online deserves your trust. But your trust is valuable enough to make sure something has earned it.
Sources & Further Reading
If you'd like to explore the research behind misinformation, online credibility, cognitive bias, media literacy, and how we decide what information deserves our trust, these are excellent places to begin:
Pennycook, G., & Rand, D. G. Lazy, Not Biased: Susceptibility to Partisan Fake News Is Better Explained by Lack of Reasoning Than by Motivated Reasoning. Cognition, 2019. Research exploring how analytical thinking relates to people's ability to distinguish false from accurate information.
Vosoughi, S., Roy, D., & Aral, S. The Spread of True and False News Online. Science, 2018. A large-scale study examining how true and false information spreads online and the role people play in helping information travel through social networks.
Wardle, C., & Derakhshan, H. Information Disorder: Toward an Interdisciplinary Framework for Research and Policy Making. Council of Europe, 2017. A widely cited framework explaining misinformation, disinformation, and the different ways inaccurate or misleading information can be created and shared.
Lewandowsky, S., Ecker, U. K. H., Seifert, C. M., Schwarz, N., & Cook, J. Misinformation and Its Correction: Continued Influence and Successful Debiasing. Psychological Science in the Public Interest, 2012. A review of why misinformation can be difficult to correct once people encounter and accept it and what research suggests about reducing its influence.
Wineburg, S., & McGrew, S. Lateral Reading and the Nature of Expertise: Reading Less and Learning More When Evaluating Digital Information. Teachers College Record, 2019. Research examining how skilled fact-checkers evaluate unfamiliar online sources by looking beyond the page itself and investigating the source, evidence, and broader context.
UNESCO. Media and Information Literacy. Resources focused on critically accessing, evaluating, understanding, creating, and using information in an increasingly complex media environment.
National Institute of Standards and Technology (NIST). Reducing Risks Posed by Synthetic Content. Guidance addressing AI-generated and manipulated digital content, including methods for improving transparency, authenticity, and understanding of where digital content comes from.
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